desmond94114 Kinky guy for dating & play (f

PrEP = Generally like to plan play dates so I do 2-1-1 method of PrEP. Negative and tested 10/2024
Vaxxed and keep up on my vaccinations (both COVID and Mpox)

Ultimately I am looking for someone who wants to connect on a deeper level, dating, brunches, dinner in, being a big spoon to your little spoon, streaming app & chill. With that said, I don't mind play only with the right guys. :)

I’m pretty open and respectful to all kinks even if I don't list them as mine.

I am truly 50/50 and it sways back and forth. I am happy being the one in control for the right sub, but wouldn't mind exploring my sub side with the right Dom.

I wouldn’t mind having a kinky boy who wants to be partners and collared or being that submissive boy.

I enjoy flipping on many things. Mostly dominant/top for impact play (whipping, spanking, flogging, paddling). Sub for cosplay, hypnosis, emasculation/humiliation. Full list below.

Some other non-sexual stuff (in case one wanted to know more about me).

* I’ve done my time volunteering within the community and kink community (I've held and produced leather titles - know many people in both the leather and court scenes -- I don't subscribe to the ego's but find good people in all groups).
* I tend to wear cute and/or funny t-shirts
* My fetishes and kinks don’t define me or my sexuality and I enjoy a hot make out session/foreplay just as much as any of my kinky stuff.
* Joss Whedon (former advocate until his cancellation) feel free to test me on my Buffy knowledge.
* I go to the gym (Fitness S.F.) but admittedly have gained some weight since COVID. Wouldn't mind someone who inspires me to get back to where I was 4 years ago (I tend to get distracted by chocolate, peanut butter, cheese and pizza).
* I like to mentor and educate people whether it's how to do impact play without hurting someone or how to engage in safe play.
* I speak in song lyrics and movie quotes

People ask me what my type is and I can name a variety of types that are all completely different (good things come in all shapes, sizes and colors).

Questions? Just ask. Im an open book and happy to chat with anyone interested.

If you made it this far then here is a list of things I get into.

- fucking (both sides)
- sucking (both sides)
- watersports (both sides)
- diaper play (always enjoy diapering a boy as well as wearing myself)
- pup play (always a pup at heart but enjoy being handler more)
- Chastity (both sides)
- flogging (giving more than receiving but open)
- whipping (I enjoy from top perspective only)
- bondage (verse - have a deep appreciation for saran wrap and mummification)
- light breath play (exchange of oxygen through kissing is a turn on)
- hypnosis (Im a sub for hypno and like the idea of being under someones control through hypno).
- I enjoy cosplay all across the spectrum (cd, superhero, give me a hot guy in lingerie and I want to be on top - give me a dom guy and I'll be in hose and heels).

If it's not on the list I'll still probably enjoy it with the right person and the right connection so feel free to ask. daddies, otters, wolves, bears, pups, sissies, hot men in lingerie and heels).