MakoGimp

Expert at width, working on depth... what’s next?

I’ve been into rubber, tactical/camo gear, bondage, fisting, electro, CBT, milkers, catheters, and more since 2009. I started out pretty subby but grew into a capable switch… these days I’m drawn to guys who are at least open to switching. You don’t need to be an expert top or dom, just curious, patient, and willing to learn, and we’ll get along great. My play style is usually casual… I love showing people around the playroom, and if you happen to trip and fall into a straitjacket while we’re exploring, well, that’s just part of the tour.

I can get into heavier, headspace-driven scenes too, but those are a bit rarer for me.

Outside of play, I’ve got an amazing chosen family of seven guys spread across four houses on the same block. Technically I live alone, but doors stay open, meals happen together, and it often feels like a kinky sitcom… one minute it’s quiet, the next everyone’s in the kitchen grabbing food. We’re along the Blue Line near O’Hare, which makes meeting up with folks passing through town easy.

I’d also love to find a partner who feels like a central piece of my life… someone I can share a deeper bond with, while still keeping the closeness I have with my chosen family. Ideally he’d feel at home in that mix too. I’m a bit of a romantic at heart, but I haven’t done much traditional dating in years, so I’m definitely rusty. Subtle flirting usually flies right past me, so being direct helps a lot.

Fisting has been part of my play since around 2010. I’m into both giving and receiving, experienced with depth and width, and always focused on connection, pacing, and communication… slow and steady wins every time. I like building trust, teasing limits, and seeing how far we can go together.

Some of my favourite scenes:

1) Casual Gear & Bondage Hangouts: Rubber, singlets, or tactical gear… music on, maybe some bondage or straitjacket time, just hanging out and enjoying the vibe.

2) Rubber & Fisting Play: Usually 1:1 or small group… switch back and forth, bring in toys, have fun with it while we stretch each other out a bit.

3) I like adding caths into bondage or fisting sessions, especially longer ones. Got a range of sizes for guys who want to try… hygiene and consent always come first.

If that sounds like your kind of fun, feel free to reach out. I’m not looking to get lost in endless chats, but if there’s a real spark or shared interests, I’m happy to see where things go.