chastesubmuc

Pup Lumo: into chastity, bondage, leather, rubber

Some people call me nerdy, I would characterize myself as the average next-door guy who also has a "darker" kinky streak.

My main turn-ons are:
- bondage in most forms: rope, straightjackets, leather, etc. Being unable to move and escape whatever the dom dishes out is probably the main turn on. I crave being controlled, teased, edged, being kept horny, ... with only the dom in charge. I crave when control is taken away from me.

- gags, blindfold, muzzles, etc.: A very specific aspect of bondage for me. Taking away sight and speech from a sub stresses that he's at the mercy of the dom and there for his pleasure.

- chastity, edging, cum control: ideally through a secure belt, but not being allowed to touch also "works". My dream is to be locked in a metal belt like a Carrara for extended periods of time and being kept horny. If a master then teases me, edges me and ultimately locks me back up, this would be a perfect way to stress that I'm not the one in control. What better way is there to show a man that he's given up control than controlling his urge to cum ;-)

- CBT, TT, electro: From soft to medium-hard with toys like a ball crusher, nipple clamps or plain rope. Electro can be super erotic and quickly switch between pleasure and pain. IMO the ideal way for a dom to show who's in charge.

- pup play: As you might have guessed from the profile pics, I also have a strong pup-side. I'm a pup at heart. If you are a handler or a strong alpha pup, you can get me happily woofing on all fours.
You will frequently find some pup behavior. For me the core of being a pup is getting into the headspace rather than play like fetching balls, moshes, etc. I mainly want to be a good boy.
But I do realize that some people are turned off by pups. It's one thing I enjoy, but not a must. If you don't want to play with a pup, let me know and I can be almost a pure hooman ;-P

- leather: The smell and sound of leather alone frequently make me hard (if not prevented by a chastity belt ;-) Doesn't almost every man look so much better in leather? It can range from a simple gauntlet up to full uniform.

- rubber: I'm quite new to it, but I'm getting into it more and more and my collection of gear is constantly growing.

- anything else: I'm open to try many things at least once. So let's just discuss what else is possible.

To set all of that in context, I'm convinced that the largest sex organ is the brain. So all of the fetishes are just means to stimulate it, rather than requirements or items on a checklist to be ticked.
So what ultimately turns me on is being at the dom's mercy and being controlled by him, teased by him, and denied by him, yet staying connected with him. For me it's all about giving up control and obviously trusting the dom. Trust needs to be established and I believe having some kind of connection beyond play is also important. Trust is always a two-way-street. Being able to have a lough and a coffee together completes the package.

Turn offs / limits: anything anal or being fucked, unsafe, dirty, longer lasting marks, poor hygiene, being drunk or any drugs stronger than poppers.

I have met (not necessarily played with) all the guys in my friends list in real life.

Ich spreche auch deutsch.
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BLUF 3848
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