visiblerestraint

Kinks. All the kinks.

Events:
Seattle:
Introduction to Erotic Hypnosis, June 29, 2025 - TICKETS ON SALE NOW at Stranger Tickets!!
CBT Workshop, May 10 at 2 PM in Tacoma (Tickets on Sale Soon)
Introduction to Erotic Hypnosis, May 18 at 2 PM in Tacoma (Tickets on Sale Soon)

On-Going Seattle Events

MEN TYING MEN Skillshare events - Free @ Gallery Erato:
March 19, 2025 @ 7 PM
May 21, 2025 @ 7 PM

MEN TYING MEN Play Parties - Ticketed:
April 13, 2025 @ 6 PM
June 8, 2025 @ 6 PM

HYPNOKINK ENTHUSIAST GROUP: Skillshare Events - Free @ Gallery Erato:
March 15, 2025 @ 1 PM
May 17, 2025 @ 1 PM

HEG TRANCE NIGHT: Ticketed Hypnosis-themed play party (Pansexual):
April 19, 2025 @ 6:30 PM
June 21, 2025 @ 7 PM

HEG Monthly Hypnosis Skill Drill Nights - Free @ Gallery Erato
March 10, 2025 @ 7 PM
April 14, 2025 @ 7 PM

NEW! Quarterly Gentleman's Impact Group (GIG): An impact play skillshare for men:
April 10, 2025 | 7 PM - 9 PM
July 10, 2025 | 7 PM - 9 PM

Go to my website to find our new merch page: Visible Restraint t-shirts, sweatshirts, hats and much, much more!

In-person Erotic hypnosis subjects step to the front of the line, particularly if you're open to creating hypnosis video content with me. It's an amazing way to create intimate connection and to explore our wildest fantasies. Imagine a lucid, guided wet dream...

The URL to my bondage photography site is obvious. It's called Visible Restraint. Try the first URL you imagine it might be. You'll be right. And all of my videos have been moved to that same site.

Ask about the Virtual Restraint Discord Server.

All the photos in my galleries and on my website are mine. If there's bondage in them, the bondage is my work. I have the photo ID and a model release on file for each subject shown. There's a detailed FAQ document on my website that explains how to become a bondage model for my site.

I play with all kinds, ages, sizes of guys. Lighter, tighter, younger, more flexible guys have an easier time with my bondage, but all are welcome to ask.

I have 50 years of adult bondage and SM experience. I am a bondage top. I have references. I have a playspace in Central Tacoma.

My husband and I have been in an open/poly relationship for more than 30 years. We've been married since July 1, 2013. And he's my angel. But he's not into 3-ways.

We have a very devoted kink family of folks I love very deeply. Among others in that family are my partners Saltnginger and Lostinsea (and his amazing husband), and my collared boys MSpin and Revrope - and my sweet collaborator and partner in crime Knotkin. And please welcome Status to our family. He's a bull, an incredibly talented hypnotist/subject and hypnosis educator.

My kink interest list is long and includes CBT, erotic hypnosis, fisting, impact play (flogging, punching, caning, spanking), watersports, breath control, cuddling, making out, TT and electricity. I enjoy giving long, intense massage. Our dungeon is well-stocked for a reason. But think of my list as more of a menu than a list of stuff you gotta do.

About the 80% Active thing: Mostly, I'm a top and a dominant. But I'm an impact play bottom. Occasionally, there's nothing better than getting the living CRAP beat out of me. I call it my reset button. And, very occasionally, it's fun to confirm that I don't have a gag reflex.

Smart, verbal guys who don't need to work off a script (or need me to work off a script) are the ones who get to play with me a second time.