therubberfreak

Service gimp looking for new friends, fun, travel.

About Me
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I'm a 41 year old guy, the the time of my life. I have incredibly amazing friends and chosen family. I've been having a bit of a rebirth of my desire to explore and share my fetish with other guys. Looking to travel to meet new people and have/share new experiences.

What I'm into
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These things especially get me going:
- bondage
- full coverage latex or catsuits
- sleepsacks++ (obsessed)
- straitjackets
- machines (fucking, milking, electro)
- mindfucks
- chastity (long and short term)
Lately the idea of being a rubber gimp at someones service has constantly been on my mind.

New Discoveries:
- hypnosis - I'm relatively new here and never thought I'd like it, but it's amazing. Happy to chat about it
- gags - I'd always enjoyed the look in photos and occasionally on myself, but I've developed a huge fetish/fixation for really effective but comfortable gags. Specifically the Silencilicone ones.
- cocksucking - What can I say, I guess I have been repressing an oral fixation.

Down the Rabbit Hole
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I dig it - quite a few guys don't talk about this kinda stuff on their profiles, but here it is: I like things that alter a persons mental state. Maybe it makes them suggestible, maybe it makes them sleepy, Maybe it just feels good. Maybe you didn't take anything other than a vitamin, and your brain has created the whole thing in response to a fantasy you have. Maybe I'm inside your head. You decide for yourself what that all means.

^^ this section really gets some guys wound up, excited, horny and wondering what I really meant. That means it's working...

Limits
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Yep, I've got some. We should talk about them before we play.

Safewords
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I'm going to admit that I rarely play with safewords from either side. Don't mistake this as a disdain for safewords - they have their place. I tend to spend time learning to read the sub before I'll push things to a point that they'd even consider using one. As for myself subbing, I tend to play with tops that can handle themselves the same way. Occasionally a scene dictates a need for an immediate signal, and one will be agreed upon and followed.

What I'm Looking For
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Ideally, i would like to form more lasting relationships - if we hit it off, I'd love to play. I'm generally not into random hookups or one-night-stands, but you do have to meet someone the first time, and sometimes it is sexually charged. If you would like to meet up for a beer, hang out, play or play, reach out and we can chat.

What I'm Not Looking For
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This section used to say that I don't want people to try to use me or my place as a gear playground. Recently I've come to realize that I enjoy giving (legal) younger guys new experiences and sharing my fetish. So if you're one of those, we could maybe still chat. I can't promise to be attracted to everyone, but as they say - shoot your shot.

Not looking for people that are offended when I don't respond to their message within whatever their internal timer says is appropriate. I'm also not looking for people that will get emotionally hurt when I disappear for awhile and don't read any messages.

Outside of Kink
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Outside of all the sex and kink I'm into music (guitar, piano), sportbikes, auto racing, big diesel trucks, I'm a competent auto and diesel mechanic, passable machinist, welder/fabricator and I've got a good collection of tools. I'm also into nerdy computer stuff - My degree is in computer engineering and I've got a home compute cluster and an overly complicated network stack.

I love building stuff, especially bondage/gear related stuff. I've built too many things to list these days and I'm planning to build a lot more. I'd love to meet more technosexuals.

Caveats
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I tend to be pretty blunt about how I feel about things. I'm a homebody. I've got a little bit of a temper.