socalbond

Bondage/Captivity

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Bondage, bdsm and captivity guy here to connect with other like minded men. I enjoy the power exchange aspect of bdsm of one man submitting safely to another. Having a man restrained, struggling and coping with the discomfort and some pain while remaining hard and dripping is what I find hot.

Some random thoughts on how I view BDSM play:
- restraints should lock – no escape possible
- I admire anyone that can do rope bondage – hoping to learn from a quality rope top
- prisoners should be in restraints at all times even when confined in a cell or cage
- prisoners should be barefoot and stripped to the waist always, if not naked
- really like the look and feel of cold steel against the skin
- Hogties, compression positions, predicament bondage, endurance positions are all meant to get tougher over time testing the physical and mental abilities of the prisoner
- Anyone can break another guy – it takes imagination and ability to take a guy to just short of his breaking point and keep him there and also have him wanting to stay there just to prove he can take it
- “It’s not bondage until you want out” – It’s not the captor’s responsibility to keep the prisoner entertained – periods of isolation should be expected
- cages and cells are amazing places, having the right gear can go a long way to a quality session, but at the end of the day I’ll take a guy’s apartment floor and his imagination if he puts me in the right head space – one of my best sessions ever was in a guy’s apartment without much gear - would like to be tied by him again


Looking for similar men into bondage and captivity for extended terms of confinement from several hours to a full day (8 to 10 hours). I would consider an overnight or weekend captivity session with a trusted bondage captor. Safe, sane and consensual play with limits to be discussed. I’m still looking to spend a weekend or longer in a cell (concrete floor, attachment points on the floor and walls) as someone’s prisoner. Who has the ability to take this prisoner into custody and make him serve out his sentence?


Hit me up if interested as captive or captor. I'm willing to switch and exchange positions with a like minded guy, or show the ropes to a relative novice.


No PNP, no 420, no being under the influence of alcohol or any other substance; safe play only and it’s never negotiable.


The friends listed are all quality men I’ve actually met and whom I admire or have had long term online friendships with. I am happy to provide a recommendation for these fine men.


https://socalbond.bdsmlr.com
Twitter: @socalbond (deleting in the new year)
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