BoundToFly Dom for Bondage, Suspension, S&M

Face and Body Pic to chat or for a reply. No headless wonders.
House Rigger at Avant Garde BDSM party; 3rd Saturdays 44th/9th NYC
Rope Social NJ Rope Lab 4th Mondays
Instructor at NJ Rope Space. 2nd Sundays
Instagram: MenInRope
Looking for models for Photo Shoots.
Often at Hillside Campground or CampOut in the Summer.


I'm a GL Asian Dom and Shibari Master who travels to practice, play, perform and teach Shibari.

Offering Private lessons in the NYC/NJ area and monthly group lessons in Highland Park, NJ. Vaccinations and masks required.

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I'm openly partnered to a great guy who understands my tastes can be a bit more diverse than he enjoys, so I get to play but not host. I enjoy risky, sadistic play and Informed Consent. I also play with married and partnered guys, but insist your other half knows (see above: "Informed Consent").

I teach, perform, and co-host the NJ Rope Lab (a social event to hang, munch, and do/learn about rope) as well as facilitate the TES bondage group.. Contact me for more info or you would like to discuss private lessons, performances, or rigging for a photo shoot. If you'd like to see more of my work, visit me fetlife.com/BoundToFly or Instagram.com/MenInRope.

I think Kissing and Kink can be incredibly hot and intimate - no sex required. Sex, if it occurs, will happen much further down the road and only if the BF approves. But if you think you can have a hot time w.o. it, then we might be a match.

Mostly, I love Japanese style rope bondage. Its more about the journey, the intimacy, the control and play as I tie you up and tease, stroke, or hurt you. And if you have a hardpoint (like an exposed beam in a loft) suspending you in mid air is amazing fun. Definitely up for scenes, tying guys just for practice, or learning more from masters/mentors. If you'd like to know about why I tie: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zF0HkTON9V1_0jcVJz7Sll0GQWcXylagtK-_MaFiWEg

Other things I like are S&M (cbt, tt, impact, flogging, spanking, rough body play, pressure points), wax, pins, and fisting. Electro play is fun too although I don't own that gear. Not into Master/slave, I'm more Sir/boy dynamic. Not into degradation, humiliation, permanent harm, blood, or scat.

I actually live on the N end of the NJ Shore, but I'm constantly learning more about rope and travel regularly to NYC. So you city guys near Penn, WTC or LES who can host, say hi. We might be able to play. ;-)

Poz friendly. Someone you know and love is Poz and still the same person you loved before. In my world, "clean" should mean you are showered and douched, not your HIV status.

Yeah, I own the leather and gear, but its more about the Man and the connection for me than the paraphernalia. If we connect, you'll be amazed at what I can do with my bare hands, a little improv and a little bit of rope or just a shoelace.

Please, no "bois". I like fit drug-free masculine Men over 30.

PICS ARE REQUIRED. Learn to use this app and attach a pic if you don't have a public face pic and body pic.

PLEASE say MORE than Just "Hello". Tell me more about you, or why I caught your attention. Think of it like advertising. Let me know why I would want to talk to you. If all you do is say "hi" or "hello", I'm going to assume you are just lazy, looking at the pictures, and just saying Hi. I'm really not interested. And if you open with "Sup" or "Heyyyy", thats an instant block.

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Results from http://bdsmtest.org
99% Non-monogamist
98% Dominant
95% Rigger
94% Primal (Hunter)
93% Voyeur
86% Experimentalist
83% Sadist
81% Exhibitionist
78% Master/Mistress
60% Owner
58% Daddy/Mommy
55% Brat Tamer
22% Degrader
16% Ageplayer
13% Vanilla
7% Switch
6% Rope Bunny
5% Primal (Prey)
5% Pet
3% Brat
2% Masochist
1% Submissive
1% Girl/Boy
0% Slave
0% Degradee

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