bdsmps

Bondage and pain

Seeking mature, imaginative men for NSA play. Honesty, integrity, and mutual respect are essential. These are the aspects of bdsm that interest me most: bondage, TT, CBT, impact (flogging, paddling, whipping, bastinado), electro, and edging, with hot wax, ice, hole play, CMNM, and display coming in a close second. Like to mix intensity with tenderness and pain with pleasure. This is not an exhaustive list of all possible activities. Everything depends upon the man and the circumstance. I do not do long or overnight sessions. My usual session is around 2 hours.

Proud Sir to my excellent boy, slv4Mastr. Pictures of him are in the "My boy" gallery regardless of when they were taken.

Not looking for LTR. No blood, scat, permanent marks, animals, or fluid exchange. No fisting, fucking, or rimming except with my boy. No drugs. I will never offer or accept money for play.

Currently up to date on vaccinations for Covid (8 to date) as well as monkeypox (second vaccination on 10 Sept 2022). HIV+, undetectable. You will be required to disclose any infection that might be transmitted to another person, including any history of genital herpes. I am happy to disclose any medical information you might want to know in advance of play.

Member, Palm Springs Bondage Club
Associate member, The 15 Association, San Francisco
BLUF #4789
E-mail: bdsmps@yahoo.com
Facebook: Matt Leatherman
BlueSky: @bdsmps.bsky.social
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Statement on risk-aware consent:
Explicit, informed consent is absolutely essential. For play with me on top, you must understand, accept and freely agree to the following:
• That you willingly submit to me for bdsm play;
• That you grant me access to strip, restrain, touch, and penetrate any and every part of your body;
• That play with me is not about role-playing or playing games: You are not an unwilling victim; you and I are two men who know and enjoy bdsm play and who come together for mutual satisfaction;
• That other men may be included in our play, with your consent;
• That BDSM play is risky: It is not the intention of either of us that you should be injured, have permanent marks, shed blood, or do anything that might result in a need for medical attention, but there is a possibility that one or more of those unintended consequences might occur;
• That your concerns and limits will be respected;
• That consent is absolute and ongoing. Your consent may be withdrawn at any time regarding any aspect of play (an activity, a setting) or the entire play session (play will come to an immediate end). Just because you wish to pause or stop play doesn't mean that the session is over; it just means we need to see what's going on and decide how to move forward... with your consent.

In Palm Springs, CA, on January 7, 2017: I do NOT give Recon or any entitles associated with Recon permission to use my pictures, information, or post, both from the past, in the present, or in the future. By this statement I give notice to Recon it is strictly forbidden to disclose, copy, distribute or take any other action against me based on this profile is private and confidential information. The violation of privacy can be punished by law (UCC 1-308-11 308-103 and Rome statute). NOTE: All members must post a note like this. If you prefer, you can copy and paste this version. If you do not publish the statement at least once it will be tacitly allowing the use of your photos, as well as information contained in the profile status updates.