reddywhp

Sadistic bottom

Home is Chicago, IL, married to scubaccs.

Health:
* COVID Vaccine + annual boosters, PrEP, Meningitis vaccine, MPOX vaccine.

Travel / events, 2024:
* Oct, Chicago IL, MIR
Travel / events, 2025:
* Jan, Maryland, Charmed
* Feb, Atlantis Caribbean
* Oct, Chicago IL, MIR

Chastity:
Completed just over a year of chastity, without any orgasms, Dec 30, 2023. Taking a break for a bit, but open to discussions w/ Chicago-area keyholder.

Ink:
Got my first tattoo, 19 hours over 5 sessions, from Jan 19, 2024 to April 29, 2024.

Looking for buddies & playmates into some combination including but not limited to:
* Bondage - it's not bondage if I can get out
* Breath control - buddy breathing, gas masks, hand over mouth
* Ropes - because squirming and *trying* to get free is fun
* CBT - because I like playing with balls and like mine played with
* Mummification - the sweating squeezing immobility is horny and relaxing
* Hypnosis - I’m a pretty easy subject to put under when I trust a guy, and I really enjoy it
* Immobilizing bondage - To feel absolutely vulnerable
* TT - my nipples are sensitive
* Predicament bondage - It's not bondage until I want out, and a tough position can drive that point home.
* Watersports - In or on. When I bottom, you'll need to force the issue
* Inescapable bondage - For when I find out I'm staying longer than planned.
* Sensory dep - excellent for driving a sub into his own head and heightening other senses
* Fucking - more bottom than top, but not exclusive
* Ass play - fingers and toys through fisting (I've not taken a full fist yet, and my hands are pretty big)
* Storage bondage - because sometimes a sub's just there to be bound and nothing else.

Hrm, somehow I managed to mention bondage a few times. Imagine that! I've never taken a fist, but I do enjoy trying. I'm often not about getting off, either myself or a sub when I'm topping.

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I'm attracted to traditional (but definitely non-toxic) masculinity. There are certain body types I'm more attracted to than others... but I'm not limited. Being confident in who you are goes a long way.

As for my limits and disinterests: No women, femininity, children, real animals, sc@t. Nothing that requires a hospital, doctor, or mortuary visit after the scene is done.

I'm a firm believer in "reusable bottoms" (especially when the bottom is me). They have to be able to want to play again.

WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You are hereby directed and requested to tell me if you ever pay attention to these absurd WARNINGS/DISCLAIMERS that people put at the top of their profiles. Seriously, do these things have any legal binding, anyway? I mean, did you even read this far?